Being Positive

Katy Perry is having a contest to win a private concert by her. A high school on Abilene, Texas has made a two minute video using "Roar" as inspiration. The video is inspiring. Here it is: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BqdDNKRfVtI 

 I came across it while trying to watch a video about a local one-legged foot ball player. (American football) That video wouldn't play so I played the contest video because the caption was about being positive and that is a subject that usually pisses me off. I will relate this to art, just wait.

This video is actually positive, I love it. It shows a problem and how to fix it. That's positive. My problem with "positive" people is they usually aren't positive, they just say they are, they act positive, but they are hard to be around. Real positive people do stuff. They work out the problems, or see the problems and forge ahead anyway. Fake positive people complain about people that see problems. Fake positive people will keep happily doing the same wrong thing over and over because they are happy and positive. You know the type?

In the video the popular, look-down-on-everybody-else-people, are the fake positive people, always happy, always happily, continually doing the wrong thing. (not all popular people are like that) Some people make such a habit of being popular that all they know is; put on a happy face and be positive!  Their lives are very narrow; who can I impress and where do I have to be next? They live by their schedule and question nothing. Socrates complained about these people also. Thinking takes effort, and thinking that only being "positive" is the answer is a narrow minded view.

You can come to a problem and be happy about it, and solve it happily. That's great. But you have to recognize it first, and "positive" people have taught themselves that recognizing problems is negative. When I hit a problem, and that's what it feels like to me, I slam into it and it surprises me and I let out a cuss word, or a few, or even a string of them. Now I'm all worked up and my brain is burning to solve the problem, and I do. That's positive too.

The art part, I told ya, here it is: Unless you're one of those super talented people who just whips out fantastic art, you're going to have problems with your art. I had one today. I wanted to remove a lot of stone quickly because this sculpture is taking too long. I thought about driving to town to look for some carbide or diamond tools. Part of the problem is when I get on an idea I stick with it till it works or I prove it won't. So going to town could be a waste of time, but I don't know, but I figure any time I save with better tools will be offset by the time spent running around. I decide to stay and work with what I've got.

I've had bigger problems, like the first sculpture I did was terrible, but I figured I could do better, and I have. However I didn't just get better by being happy. Plenty of times I was pissed. The ideal picture of an artist calmly working . . . that's not me. Maybe most of the time, but not all the time. I had to do research on different types of clay, tools, how they are used. This isn't the type of thing a fake positive person will do.

Managers are often promoted because they are fake positive. They are always happy, but they can't even recognize a problem, they are just yes men. This is a big problem where I work. I come to managers with problems and solutions and I always hear; You're right, but there's nothing we can do about it. These people are so bad at solving problems they can't even implement a solution when its given to them. That is not positive.

Facebook is a very depressing place, some study shows, I read somewhere. The reason is people post positive things making it look like their lives are perfect and it depresses people who don't have "perfect" lives. That's fake positive. Everyone has problems. Positive people just solve them, whether they are happy while doing it or not. So next time you're articulating a problem to work out the solution and someone says you're being negative, solve the problem and tell them; "that's being positive." And then ask them, "How is telling me I'm negative a positive thing?" They will shut up, they don't know how to figure out answers.

"Be positive" is such a common phrase. What needs to be common is "Work out the problem." That's much harder and will never be popular. But it's what gets things done.